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auto-da-fe
March 22, 2004, 01:04 PM
Some of you might remember a post from me a while back about this girl who thought she was a reborn archangel, and that her daughter was the messiah. If not, it is a good read here (http://www.iidb.org/vbb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70400). Warning to the wise though, be prepared to read some of the most fucked up shit you have ever read.



Anyway, a lot of new things have happened about here, and I thought I would share them.

First, her hudband left her. I knew this was coming every since her husband and I talked about it. In reality, I like her husband way more than I like her, its just that I met her first. Anyway, he left her because she is 1) habitually unfaithful, 2) strung out on a whole bunch of different drugs, 3) abusive towards the kids, and 4) just an all around pyscho bitch.

Along with the divorce, comes many new and intersting sides of white trash controversies.

Case in point...

She has an older son (about 8 or 9 now, I am not real sure how old he is), named Joe. Now, I will admit that it has been about 2 years since I have seen Joe, but I remember him to be a fairly good kid. Anyway, Joe was fighting with his messiah sister, Dora (short for Pandora), and at one point poked her in the back with a pencil. I have no idea how hard he poked her, having only heard about it from a third source. As punishment for this horrible crime, the psycho stabbed Joe in the back with the pencil not once, not twice, but three times. She broke skin on two of the times, and Joe gets to join the rest of us who have pencil lead permanantly stuck under our skin in some place (I got mine on the left side of my left knee, it having gotten lodged their after a girl stabbed me with a pencil in the 7th grade).

Anyway, Joe went to school the next day and at some point, told his teacher what happened. The teacher called the police, the police called DCFS. DCFS came to psycho's house, and eventually took both the kids out of the home (YEAH!!!!).

So, now this psycho has lost her husband and her kids in the span of a couple of weeks. The funny thing is that everytime I talk to her, she manages to get a comment in about "God" will let the truth be known soon enough. The shame is that I already know the truth, having spoken to both her husband, and her parents (her parents currently have custody of her kids). She tries to play it off like it isn't her fault. Her current plan is to put all the fault on Joe and make it sound like he routinely abuses Dora, and this was just an attempt to get him to stop. IOW, she is going to sell out her kid in an attempt to save her own ass. Nice huh?

Anyway, I couldn't be happier that those kids were taken away from her. Although I still feel sorry for her kids, now that they have lost their dad, then their mom all within such a short period of time. In the end though, I just have to remember that this will be better for them than staying with her would have been.

Proxima Centauri
March 22, 2004, 01:34 PM
The mother is psychiatrically ill, perhaps insane. Try and be a bit nice to her. She may not be responsible for her actions. Would it be good if the kids were in contact with their father?

auto-da-fe
March 22, 2004, 01:38 PM
Well, my buddy is only the father of Dora, Joe is the psycho's other ex-husbands. My friend has already petitioned to get full custody of Dora and has a hearing on Tuesday (tommorow), and we are crossing our fingers.

I have been nice to her most of the time... I haven't exploded on her or anythign, and my wife is still nice to her as well. Although we personally are celebrating the fact the she isn't responsible for the kids anymore, we are still trying to be semi-supportive of her. At the same time though, my loyalties really lie in my friend, who is the psychos cheif adversary if you ask her. He is a much mroe responsible parent (not too mention more responsible adult), and would be much better for Dora. I'm afraid their isn't much hope of anyone coming to Joe's rescue, and he will probably be raised by the pyscho's parents for the rest of his life.

Proxima Centauri
March 22, 2004, 02:08 PM
Is anything wrong with the pyscho's parents?

auto-da-fe
March 22, 2004, 02:10 PM
They seem a little anal to me, but at least they genuinely care for Joe and Dora. They are honestly concerned with what is best for them, so that makes them alright by me.

auto-da-fe
March 22, 2004, 02:29 PM
and another new development just as of today...

Turns out the DCFS actually filed assaualt charges against her, and she has now been arrested. To be more specific, a bench warrent was issued for her arrest, and she turned herslef in. Seems like she would now sit back and examine her choices in life, but my guess is that she will continue to try to blame this on her son instead of taking respobsibility herslef, or failing that, asking herself what she may have done differently as a parent to prevent Joe from doing these kinds of things.

AspenMama
March 22, 2004, 04:06 PM
I'm so relieved the children are safe. It sounds as though the mother has been getting progressively worse. The boy was brave to confide in his teacher-- good for him.

B. Shack-- I don't know if you read the original thread, but MegaDave has been kind and attempted to be their friend despite much craziness. Watch out for those assumptions...

keyser_soze
March 24, 2004, 02:26 PM
Originally posted by B.Shack
The mother is psychiatrically ill, perhaps insane. Try and be a bit nice to her. She may not be responsible for her actions. Would it be good if the kids were in contact with their father?

I have a huge problem with this thought process. I'll drop you a an old quote I remember...not where from.


"Mercy for the guilty is treason against the victim."

EarlFlynn
March 24, 2004, 05:24 PM
Originally posted by keyser_soze
I have a huge problem with this thought process. I'll drop you a an old quote I remember...not where from.


"Mercy for the guilty is treason against the victim."

And I have a huge problem with that thought process. If someone is legitimately deranged, punitive action does no good.

Enai
March 28, 2004, 03:10 PM
She broke skin on two of the times, and Joe gets to join the rest of us who have pencil lead permanantly stuck under our skin in some place (I got mine on the left side of my left knee, it having gotten lodged their after a girl stabbed me with a pencil in the 7th grade).

There is no lead in a pencil. The active ingredient is graphite (carbon) with some clay for hardness, so no danger of any poisoning. Stabbing her son is bad enough on its own, though.

Enai

Corona688
March 28, 2004, 03:55 PM
There is no lead in a pencil. The active ingredient is graphite (carbon) with some clay for hardness, so no danger of any poisoning.I think the beef was that it was permanently stuck under the skin, not that it contained elemental lead.